To be honest, the preference of an ordered life is much better than of chaos. However if living in only one side of the story, how can we see the other?
While the conductor of a musical ensemble leads with the baton, there needs to be harmony from an instrument to the orchestra to have the whole piece come together. This goes as of life. Within our home, we need to tune ourselves in accordance to the life that we are leading. Just like how notes match in a chord in music. One may ask, how do we tune ourselves with life and nature? You start with yourself. You begin with what you can grasp. Ask yourself a daily question about how to live in respects to harmony in life. Questions of life can help keep the fire going inside of you. You fuel yourself each day, the questions become deeper and precise in respects. And your understanding becomes appreciative. Growing in the nature of harmony, you will notice life in a chord. You are the conductor of life. With the universe, you will live in harmony.