To be honest, the preference of an ordered life is much better than of chaos. However if living in only one side of the story, how can we see the other?
Harmony with the Universe
While the conductor of a musical ensemble leads with the baton, there needs to be harmony from an instrument to the orchestra to have the whole piece come together. This goes as of life. Within our home, we need to tune ourselves in accordance to the life that we are leading. Just like how notes match in a chord in music.